KIP by SRK

Parenting and child Psychology.

It's important to remember that every child is unique...!

Subject: - Insecurity in Child's, Effects of insecurity, Causes and how to deal with it.

Yes, this is a common factors in the child, regarding  childhood insecurity. it can apparent  in various ways, and having lot of causes and and can have long-lasting effects on a child's emotional and psychological position. Some of the effects of insecurity are shared below.

1. Behavioural issue.
2. Less Trust on their own abilities.
3. Negative self-image NSI.
4. Attachment issue.
5. Anxiety.
6. Social Difficulties.

Behavioural issues:- Insecurity can put a huge effects on the behaviour of the child's, sometimes apparent  in challenging or disruptive behaviours, such as aggression, acting out or shouting.

Low trust on their own abilities:- This is a major issue in child if don't address properly then resultant in the way that don't trust on their own abilities. Every time find him/her in a complex and confusing personality.

Negative self-Image:- NSI (Negative Self Image) created when a child feels insecure, mostly arguing with them to cover their negative image.  Children who feel insecure may lack of confidence in their dealings and mostly over criticised by themselves.

Attachment issues:- Insecure children may have facing a lot of issues and hardness  with forming healthy attachments to their friends, parents and  caregivers in their surroundings, and may struggle with trust, closeness, and intimacy.

Anxiety:- Anxiety is a common outcome of insecure child's. social anxiety is a strongest effects about it.

Social difficulties:- Insecure children may struggle to form friendships or to navigate social situations and may feel isolated or excluded from peer groups.

Overall look at this concept  find that insecurity having a huge and long lasting impact on the personalities of the child, if not properly understand, dealt and manage it may cause the negative impacts on the child behaviour and society also faces the problems.

Causes of insecurity in child's.

There are many factors and causes that can contribute to insecurity in children, including,

1. Family Issues.
2. Neglect and ignored by anyone.
3. Ordeal Situation.
4. Insulting and threatening by their surroundings.
5. Genetics issues.
6. Development Challenges.
7. Cultural and social Factors.
8. Less birth gap in children.

Family issues:- Instability, conflict, and misunderstandings  within the family can contribute a lot to feelings of insecurity in children. Mostly family issues contributing  a lot towards the child insecurity. Family rituals and patterns are also having a lot of challenges towards the child insecurity.

Neglect and ignored by anyone:- Sometimes child's go through this issue regarding neglect and ignored, feel themselves into the state of the insecurity,  Children who do not receive enough attention, affection, or care from their caregivers may feel neglected and insecure.

 Ordeal situation:- Experiencing or witnessing ordeal  events, such as abuse, violence, or natural disasters, can leave children feeling insecure.

Insulting and threatening behaviour by their surroundings:- this type of oppressed behaviour  by peers can lead to feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem.

Genetics Issues:- Some children may be involved in this situation of insecurity due to genetic factors.

Developmental challenges:- Sometimes children are involved in comparing issues and feel some missing factors in their developments, those Children who struggle with learning disabilities, developmental delays, or other challenges may feel insecure about their abilities.

Cultural or societal factors:- Cultural and societal factors putting a huge pressure on the child in the form of insecurity.

Less birth gap in children:- Less Gap between the child's birth  may cause the insecurity to the child, mostly child's are possessive, don't want any sharing, when find sharing of intention and care by their society to their own younger brother and sister may involve themselves into the state of insecurity.

It's important to note that insecurity in children can have many different causes, and may be the result of a combination of factors. Understanding the underlying causes of insecurity can help parents and caregivers provide the necessary support and resources to help children feel more secure and confident.

How to tackle, Manage and Dealt with this Insecurity.

Dealing with a child's insecurity can be a complex and challenging process,  but there are several easy steps that parents and caregivers can use to help, support a child's emotional and psychological behaviour.

1. Be patient and persistent.
2. openly communicate with them.
3. Build a supportive relationship.
4. validate and value to their feelings.
5. Encourage positive self talk. (Positive Thinking)
6. Pointed out strength and celebrate their strengths.
7. Availed professional services if Needed. 

Be patient and persistent:- Don’t be hurry , Building a child's sense of security and confidence can be a gradual process, so be patient and persistent in your efforts to support them find very good result.

Open communication:-. When realise regarding this issues do a open communication with their child, and maintain a friendly and open way of communication to dealt with this insecurity.

Build a supportive relationship:- Create a supportive, nurturing relationship with your child, based on trust and respect.

Validate and valued  their feelings:- Let your child know that it's okay to feel insecure, give valued to this situation and that their feelings are valid and important.

Encourage positive self-talk:- Encourage your child to use positive self-talk and to challenge negative or self-defeating thoughts.

Pointed out strengths and Celebrate strengths:- Point out that the strength of the child and do celebrate it through different ways.

 Buck-up on their goals, task and accomplishments:- Help your child build confidence by focusing on their strengths and accomplishments, and by praising their efforts and achievements.

Professional services if needed:- If your child's insecurity is severe or is impacting their daily life and routines, it may be helpful to seek professional help from a mental health provider or a psychologist.

It's important to remember that every child is unique, and there may not be a one-size-fits-all approach to addressing insecurity. By providing a supportive, understanding environment and being attuned to your child's individual needs and challenges, you can help build their sense of security and self-confidence over time.

Think about it.....!